This past weekend, my good friend and colleague, Paras Mehta invited me to his home where he hosted a ‘Discover Your Core-Reveal Your Purpose’ workshop. In only a few hours I learned about my thoughts on money, my life, relationships and that I’m not the only one.
Running a design studio I spend a lot of time by myself, but in this time I’m never focused on me. It’s always about pleasing my clients and ensuring those around me are happy. This workshop peeled away all those roles I play, and let me take a moment to just be with “me” (as one of the guests put it).
It was also a huge eye opener. I’m not the only crazy one! I’m starting to discover most creative people are very emotional just like me. I don’t mean mood swings, but overall we get so involved in our work we think that it’s a direct reflection of us. I’m not saying our work shouldn’t be part of us – but it’s should take over our life mission. I always say a client’s happiness is my happiness. If the clients not happy with something I could very well absorb that and bring it into my personal life. I’m learning to stop this and it’s really nice to know I’m not the only one. In fact, even some of my mentors feel this way.
I’m also learning to take breaks. I use to feel guilty doing this but I’m beginning to realize my life mission is to make the world beautiful and I can only do that if I have some food in me, am healthy, active and happy.
Being a girlboss I still have a lot to learn but I’m happy to be surrounded by so many strong, positive and likeminded people that help me and raise me up vs. pushing me down. This is only the beginning of my journey and there is a lot more to come. I’m growing everyday and slowly learning how to be the best me and deliver that to my work and life. If you’re going through the same then remember you’re not the only one.